I’m a military brat, but I claim CO, which is where I lived
the longest and both my parents are from, as my home state. When I was in HS
and deciding where I wanted to go for college I was at a loss, other than being
pretty positive that I wanted to go out of state. So, I applied to about a
dozen schools all over the country and committed to going to whichever school
sent me an acceptance letter first. I was accepted to all of them; however,
Western Kentucky University was the first to respond, so I set out to become a
Hilltopper. I literally did not know a soul at WKU and had never even been to
KY until I went to do a tour after being accepted. It was terrifying and
exciting all at once!
It’s funny how things happen sometimes, and the factors that
lead you down the path you’re on. I could’ve decided to go to any of the
schools applied to. Some had more prestige; some were in larger cities, and
others where schools that I already knew people at, including my boyfriend at
the time, but, I had made up my mind and I wasn’t going to back out.
I had originally been placed in one dorm, but opted for a
different one, because I wasn’t familiar with the buildings and thought that my
original assignment was to a dorm where a girl had been murdered the year
before. My second assignment was to an all girls dorm, and I took it. Turns out
not only did I get re-assigned to the dorm where the murder actually happened,
but I was on the very same floor! I found out all this while I was moving in to
my room, which meant I was stuck with my assignment. It turned out to be the best
thing ever!
During MASTER Plan, which is WKU’s freshman orientation program
that they do a week before everyone else can move in, I took a family friend’s
advice and left my room door open whenever I was in the dorms. As a result, I
met Stephanie, Lauren (Loli), Kim, Ellen (Oregon), Emily, and Jess. The seven
of us clicked so well that we did just about everything together that week.
They became some of my closest friends and even when I moved out of the dorms
into the sorority house we still spent a ton of time together. Stephanie and I
ended up living together in an apartment for our third year, and the other five
rented a house together, which became a constant location of great festivities.
After graduation we ended up all over. Now, Loli, Stephanie,
Emily and Jess all are living near Nashville, TN, Kim’s near Lexington, KY,
Oregon’s in Chicago, IL and I’m here, in Louisville, KY. You’d think that most
of us being driving distance from each other we’d see more of one another. Of
course life gets busy and it becomes harder to get everyone together.
This last weekend was one of those times when we managed to
get a small gathering of us. It wasn’t everyone, but it was spectacular! I had
a spa night at my house where I got to see Stephanie, the one I see most often,
since she’s also friends with one of my best friends, Jamie, and her fiancé is
from Louisville. Then Sat and Sun were spent doing a distillery tour, slumber
party, and horse racing at Keenland with Kim (whom I haven’t seen since my
wedding 2 ½ yrs ago), Loli (last summer), and Oregon (homecoming 2 yrs ago). I
was a little nervous, since I know people change, including myself, but it was
as if we were right back in college! I love that we can go so long without
seeing each other and then pick up right where we were instantly. Along with a
few other people, these girls were my family in college, and they’ve helped me
through so many hard times. It did my heart so much good to be with them and
catch up with their lives in person, not just through Facebook stalking. I wish
it could’ve lasted a little longer, and that everyone could have made it, but ultimately
I walked away from this weekend with the reaffirmed knowledge that I am truly
blessed with some amazing people in my life whom I know I can rely on for
anything, even if I haven’t seen them in years.
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